Proverbs 25:9

⁷  For better it is that it be said unto thee, Come up hither; than that thou shouldest be put lower in the presence of the prince whom thine eyes have seen.

⁸  Go not forth hastily to strive, lest thou know not what to do in the end thereof, when thy neighbour hath put thee to shame.

⁹  Debate thy cause with thy neighbour himself; and discover not a secret to another:

¹⁰  Lest he that heareth it put thee to shame, and thine infamy turn not away.

¹¹  A word fitly spoken is like apples of gold in pictures of silver.