1 Timothy 5:10 WEB

⁸  But if anyone doesn't provide for his own, and especially his own household, he has denied the faith, and is worse than an unbeliever.

⁹  Let no one be enrolled as a widow under sixty years old, having been the wife of one man,

¹⁰  being approved by good works, if she has brought up children, if she has been hospitable to strangers, if she has washed the saints' feet, if she has relieved the afflicted, and if she has diligently followed every good work.

¹¹  But refuse younger widows, for when they have grown wanton against Christ, they desire to marry;

¹²  having condemnation, because they have rejected their first pledge.