Sirach 31:20 CPDV

¹⁸  Understand which things are your neighbor's and not your own.

¹⁹  Make use of the things that are set before you, just as a frugal man would. Otherwise, if you eat much, you will be hated.

²⁰  Cease eating first, for the sake of discipline. And do not eat to excess, lest you offend.

²¹  And if you sit in the midst of many, you should not extend your hand before they do, and you should not be the first to ask for a drink.

²²  How sufficient is a little wine for a well-taught man! For in sleep, you will not labor because of it, and you will not feel pain.